I recently had a chat with our local librarian who is due to retire later this year. She has been getting all the usual, 'so what are you going to do with yourself? Won't you get bored?' comments.
It seems a lot of people see retirement as an ending as I have said before on other threads here, but it also seems that some people think they can PLAN it. They have all these 'plans' and often for example plan a big 'once in a lifetime' trip for the beginning of their retirement. Or start polishing their golf clubs in anticipation of playing 3 or 4 days a week once they retire. Then there are those who start looking at RV brochures intending to spend a lot of time on the road. There are plenty of 'plans' people come up with obviously.
But here's my question. Why?
Throughout our lives up until we retire, we are conditioned to live our lives by the clock and according to a 'plan'. We have to get to school on time as kids and come home on a Friday night by X hour as teenagers. We get a job and must start on time each weekday, etc. We take vacations which we must book time off for with employers, ahead of time. Everything is scheduled. We are not FREE to do what we want, when we want. Should we carry that same behaviour into our retirement? I suggest we should not.
I have been retired longer than the total age of some people in this forum I would guess. As an early (very) retiree, I was still of an age to have no thoughts of it as being an 'ending' of anything, it was a new 'beginning'. I think it should be that way regardless of what age you start at. But just as when you got your first job, you could not foresee what the next 20 or 30 years would bring, it seems foolish to me to think that when you retire you can foresee the years to come anymore than you could when you started working. The only difference is you are starting 'not working.'
Retirement to me has been FREEDOM. The freedom to get up each morning and say, 'so what do I want to do today' and then doing that. I like many people started out my retirement with a wish to travel. I sold or got rid of everything that tied me down and off I went. Here's an interesting side note. I put a lot of stuff into one of those storage facilities that exist all over N. America. I paid a year's rent in advance before leaving. At the end of a year, it was time to pay again obviously. I asked myself what I had missed having that was in that storage facility and the answer was 'nothing'. So I asked my family to go and empty the locker out. Keep what they wanted, sell what they wished and donate the rest to the Sally Ann. I've yet to miss anything that was in that locker, 30 years on.
Possessions are a funny thing. I sometimes wonder if people possess their possessions or if their possessions possess them. Try saying that fast 5 times. It is amazing how liberating it can be to get rid of 'possessions'. Often, some possessions can get in the way of saying, 'so what do I want to do today?' I'm not suggesting everyone should get rid of everything when they retire and become homeless (as in a sense I did) but I do think it is worth thinking about just what something costs you in terms of freedom. The ideal is to find a balance that works for you. You may want to own a house for example (nesting instinct) but do you really want to still have a mortgage?
So what will you do in retirement as my thread title asks? Well, I can tell you that what I have done in retirement includes a lot of things that I would never in a million years have come up with if I were trying to plan it. There is a saying I like which is, 'you can't see there from here.' It is a perfect description of your retirement and where you start out.
Think of it like this: "Space: the final frontier. These are the voyages of the starship Enterprise. Its five-year mission: to explore strange new worlds. To seek out new life and new civilizations. To boldly go where no man has gone before!"
Just leave out the 'five-year' part. That sounds a bit short and pessimistic in terms of how long you will have. And please, don't go and play golf 4 days a week and consider that enough.
It seems a lot of people see retirement as an ending as I have said before on other threads here, but it also seems that some people think they can PLAN it. They have all these 'plans' and often for example plan a big 'once in a lifetime' trip for the beginning of their retirement. Or start polishing their golf clubs in anticipation of playing 3 or 4 days a week once they retire. Then there are those who start looking at RV brochures intending to spend a lot of time on the road. There are plenty of 'plans' people come up with obviously.
But here's my question. Why?
Throughout our lives up until we retire, we are conditioned to live our lives by the clock and according to a 'plan'. We have to get to school on time as kids and come home on a Friday night by X hour as teenagers. We get a job and must start on time each weekday, etc. We take vacations which we must book time off for with employers, ahead of time. Everything is scheduled. We are not FREE to do what we want, when we want. Should we carry that same behaviour into our retirement? I suggest we should not.
I have been retired longer than the total age of some people in this forum I would guess. As an early (very) retiree, I was still of an age to have no thoughts of it as being an 'ending' of anything, it was a new 'beginning'. I think it should be that way regardless of what age you start at. But just as when you got your first job, you could not foresee what the next 20 or 30 years would bring, it seems foolish to me to think that when you retire you can foresee the years to come anymore than you could when you started working. The only difference is you are starting 'not working.'
Retirement to me has been FREEDOM. The freedom to get up each morning and say, 'so what do I want to do today' and then doing that. I like many people started out my retirement with a wish to travel. I sold or got rid of everything that tied me down and off I went. Here's an interesting side note. I put a lot of stuff into one of those storage facilities that exist all over N. America. I paid a year's rent in advance before leaving. At the end of a year, it was time to pay again obviously. I asked myself what I had missed having that was in that storage facility and the answer was 'nothing'. So I asked my family to go and empty the locker out. Keep what they wanted, sell what they wished and donate the rest to the Sally Ann. I've yet to miss anything that was in that locker, 30 years on.
Possessions are a funny thing. I sometimes wonder if people possess their possessions or if their possessions possess them. Try saying that fast 5 times. It is amazing how liberating it can be to get rid of 'possessions'. Often, some possessions can get in the way of saying, 'so what do I want to do today?' I'm not suggesting everyone should get rid of everything when they retire and become homeless (as in a sense I did) but I do think it is worth thinking about just what something costs you in terms of freedom. The ideal is to find a balance that works for you. You may want to own a house for example (nesting instinct) but do you really want to still have a mortgage?
So what will you do in retirement as my thread title asks? Well, I can tell you that what I have done in retirement includes a lot of things that I would never in a million years have come up with if I were trying to plan it. There is a saying I like which is, 'you can't see there from here.' It is a perfect description of your retirement and where you start out.
Think of it like this: "Space: the final frontier. These are the voyages of the starship Enterprise. Its five-year mission: to explore strange new worlds. To seek out new life and new civilizations. To boldly go where no man has gone before!"
Just leave out the 'five-year' part. That sounds a bit short and pessimistic in terms of how long you will have. And please, don't go and play golf 4 days a week and consider that enough.