1. Primary mortgage paid off within 4 years.
2. Not have to worry about not being able to afford the occasional luxury, like a new pair of expensive runners, buying the 'good' ketchup, or ordering the odd pay-per-view event--my wife's making me work on that one (ie being ok with spending money too)...give me a couple years...
3. Pay off trailer for camping with family (3 months to go!)
4. Keep regular investing through highs and lows of economy.
5. NOT look at my net worth when I know it's less--only look on the good months..I guess a goal would be to see the positive more (ongoing, but getting there!).
6. Retire by 55.
7. Support about half of kids' college/university expenses (I think they should cover some of it).
8. Have at least one vacation condo, even if shared with some family, somewhere out of the city, by 50.