As a millennial approaching their 40s, I’m having a bit of an existential crisis.
Recently my net worth has increased substantially. Over the past half year, I’ve seen my net worth increase by over $100k. I will soon reach $1m in net worth, excluding the rise in value of our little home (est ~$100-150k for my share). My husband’s own net worth is approx $1m, or there around, also excluding his share of the increase in value of our home.
The more my net worth grows, the more I realize how little it seems to matter. SFH costs in Vancouver continues its ascent despite high interest rates. I can’t buy a car that we want due to low supply. We’re exhausted with our full time jobs and a toddler, but it doesn’t seem financially prudent at our income and asset level to hire a full-time nanny, vs daycare. I do not feel like I’m rich enough to improve my life in any substantial way due to current costs of living in Vancouver.
I live a very middle class existence like my parents did when they were my age, but I have so much more than they did. But otoh, they also didn’t carry a $1.1M mortgage on their primary residence…
It feels very stagnant, and I feel like that doesn’t make sense. When will I feel financial freedom?
Edit to add: I won’t be responding to the snarky comments, because I feel like the point of my post was missed (and also if I wanted those responses I would’ve posted on Reddit lol).
I brought up those things because less than a decade ago, all of those things would’ve been affordable at our current net worth and HHI, but it’s not anymore. And it feels that regardless of how much my net worth goes up, those things will be out of reach for a very long while.
Recently my net worth has increased substantially. Over the past half year, I’ve seen my net worth increase by over $100k. I will soon reach $1m in net worth, excluding the rise in value of our little home (est ~$100-150k for my share). My husband’s own net worth is approx $1m, or there around, also excluding his share of the increase in value of our home.
The more my net worth grows, the more I realize how little it seems to matter. SFH costs in Vancouver continues its ascent despite high interest rates. I can’t buy a car that we want due to low supply. We’re exhausted with our full time jobs and a toddler, but it doesn’t seem financially prudent at our income and asset level to hire a full-time nanny, vs daycare. I do not feel like I’m rich enough to improve my life in any substantial way due to current costs of living in Vancouver.
I live a very middle class existence like my parents did when they were my age, but I have so much more than they did. But otoh, they also didn’t carry a $1.1M mortgage on their primary residence…
It feels very stagnant, and I feel like that doesn’t make sense. When will I feel financial freedom?
Edit to add: I won’t be responding to the snarky comments, because I feel like the point of my post was missed (and also if I wanted those responses I would’ve posted on Reddit lol).
I brought up those things because less than a decade ago, all of those things would’ve been affordable at our current net worth and HHI, but it’s not anymore. And it feels that regardless of how much my net worth goes up, those things will be out of reach for a very long while.