1) Car - one Corolla, bought used. I take bus to work
2) House- waiting to buy (in Vancouver), currently rent which is so much cheaper than owning a place even after the recent price drop.
3) TV- cable free with rent (or probably not disconnected after previous tenant left

).
4) Clothes- I wear clothing until they fall apart or become see-through. My wife buys more frequently but she is far from being a shopaholic
5) No memberships whatsoever. I take public transit so I get to walk a lot.
6) Cell phone - one Pay as you go phone used by whoever who drives the car
7) Use the library to borrow books and rent DVDs
8) Brown bag about 95% of our lunches.
9) Collect Aeroplan points through Aerogold Visa. Have collected enough points over 3 years to get 5 return flights to TO.
10) Invest in index funds (and really trying to suppress temptations to buy individual stocks right now).
11) No outstanding debt.
We're not frugal with:
1) Groceries (by whatever we want). Our weekly grocery bill averages $200.
2) Alcohol. I drink a fair amount of beer and we both drink wine.
3) Travel frequently to Toronto to see family or buy tickets for family members to visit us in Vancouver. Over 3 years we have spent over $20K in purchased tickets.
4) Our son - toys, clothing, entertainment.. you name it! We shower him with too much affection!
5) Eat out about once a week.
6) Parental support. This is a tough one. Both sets of our parents retired with very little or no retirement income. For us, it is a cultural obligation to support parents. This trend will stop with us.
All in all ... thanks to our frugal living, we saved about 30% of our gross income in 2008.